Let Them Be Little

I have tried to make my children independent people who can do for themselves in most aspects of life. They can bathe by themselves, make simple meals, do their own laundry, pack their own lunches, etc. Because of their self sufficient ways, I often forget that they are still little children. I was reminded of this the other night when Josh was having one of his tantrums. He had had a "horrible day" and couldn't control the anger and tears. Anyway, I thought I would, for once, put aside what I was doing, run him a bubble bath and sit by the tub while he bathed. He and I talked about stuff and just hung out together for a while. He was soothed from the mood of earlier and I had some time to be still and listen to him.

It hit me that I expect them to do so much on their own that I don't get to enjoy those little moments like I should. My babies are growing up so fast and I realize I have to slow down and enjoy their company while they still want mine. Life is so good.